爱情里所有的一厢情愿都是伤害,感动了自己,恶心了别人

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Today, listening to the songs of Netease, habitually open comments, carefully chewing on the love story of others. Beautiful, sad, regretful, crazy, you can feel all the feelings about youthful love.

Just when I was saddened by these "unknown" love men and women, I suddenly remembered a friend saying a word "Why are infatuated men and women online, and what real people hear in the real life is a scum male?"

I think that I want to laugh when I think about it, because it is indeed this phenomenon.

In these emotional stories, the feelings they give people are infatuated and long-lasting. The other party who does not accept their such strong love is like disappointing something and becoming the object of being blamed.

I suddenly felt that all the willingness was a kind of hurt, and it was always easy to touch myself and disgusting others.

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My university roommate A Hai, who knows a girl less than three months, is desperate. The result is, after all, not a love fairy tale, so it was rejected by others without hesitation.

What surprised us was that he did not give up on this, but began his "spiritual" wishful thinking. The enthusiasm of the arrogant and arrogant Ahai was not depressed at all because it was rejected. The next day, he was full of energy and planned how to chase the girl. He said that he would definitely catch up.

In the year after that, he had a variety of cares for girls and sentiments, and often went to pick up girls to create a variety of "unexpected encounters" coincidence. At first, the girl responded to him out of courtesy, and then she ignored her directly.

Do you want to say that girls are not very good, others are good to her, she did not accept it at the beginning?

The girl was really a very particular person, and he sent everything back to me and found it back. If she sent it, she would give it to me. This kind of education didn’t have to be said. No wonder someone would like it.

xxAlmost a year later, the girl ran to us downstairs to find him. He ran away with excitement, but was smothered by the girl’s blood.

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What the girl said is roughly like this: "Your love really caused me too much trouble, just because you are still worthy of Peugeot, people in my class think that I am too cold and too persistent, chasing for so long. I didn't give you a chance. Just because you are pestering me every day, people I like think that my relationship is too messy to accept me.

You always stuff me what you feel good, have you asked me what I want? What I want is my own space, I beg you not to look for me again, a boy like a chewing gum, really disgusting!

He pulled his head back to silence for a night, then began to cry and complained to us. "Where is it bad, she wants to do this to me? I like her so much, she cares about her to protect her! Last winter, I was waiting for her at the library.", he said a lot of things, if you only listen to the story is really touching, even you will be a little bit can not help but want to marry a girl, how such a good man treats this.

It is precisely that I have witnessed most of the things that come and go between them. The girls also came to me and talked to me to persuade my roommates, so I know these touching stories are just A Hai’s own perspective. "A Hai, let go of that girl. Find someone who likes you and likes you. Your feelings for her are already a kind of pressure. I really love her, you just hide it in your heart and just like it." Let her live a little easier. Does she not say it, there are people who like it.” Ah Hai listened to me and said that the whole person stayed for a few seconds, and the number cried.

When people use their feelings, they often bring their own "beauty", and they will always beautify their paying behavior. If I say that you don't understand enough, then do you think that when you tell stories to others in the past, can you always endure it?

xx一厢情愿的想法更是如此,无论对方的需要如何,他们都会为自己买单。最后,我是可怜的,自我满足。我觉得付出代价真是太棒了。我不知道这种沉重的爱情实际上伤害了他人。

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不要试图触碰不喜欢你的人。最后,它只是触动了自己,但让其他人反感。

如果你也暗中喜欢一个人,就像你的一厢情愿一样。然后将它隐藏在你的心中,不要说出来。不要去努力,不要太费心。让它成为你心中的美好存在。

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